Anyway, it got me to thinking. Is there ever a case when being fanatical is ok? The only case that I can think of would be when our forefathers left England to found our country. This book highlights religious zealots, and surprise or not, it got me to thinking about radical Christians. Some of my family is on the border of what I would consider religious fanaticism. By that, I mean that they are very committed to their faith and beliefs. This is not a bad thing.
However, I do believe that Christians (just like any other religion) can be too zealous. My example (outside of the book) would be Dr. James Dobson and American Family Radio. I was raised listening to Dr. Dobson and my mother is still an avid listener. Dr. Dobson is a far-right wing Conservative, who if seen or heard by anyone outside of the American Family circle would be deemed a religious zealot. Now, I am not directly connecting my upbringing to Mormon Fundamentalism. However, I do think that it is important to see the ties between devoted religious persons, and the people that they have influence over.
This book got me to thinking about fanaticism in every form and denomination. In my opinion, being a fanatical Christian results in a very closed, narrow mind - in which every aspect of one's life is subject to criticism. I am sure that my family thinks that I am a horrible person for this, but here are things that I have come to accept:
- Homosexuality does not condem you to hell. All sins are the same in God's eyes, and all humans are created equal. I think it is ok for a person to marry the person that they love, even if they are the same sex.
- Women (or men) can raise a child on their own. I once told my mother that if I was single at the age of 35, I would want to adopt a child. She responded by telling me that this was NOT ok, because according to the Bible, children should be raised in a home with a mother and a father. She believes that a child is better off being raised in an orphanage than by a single mother. Ideally, yes, a child should have both a mother and a father in the same home. But I also believe that women are much more able to support a family by themselves than they were in Biblical times.
- Alcohol is not of the devil. Jesus drank wine, and so can I. Alcohol is just fine, in moderate amounts.
- Not every single word in the Bible is meant to be taken literally.
- Religious leaders very often use their power to exert their views (usually radical) upon unsuspecting believers who are merely trying to do right by God.
I am going to stop here, because I am sure that if my parents see this, I will be getting a very upset phone call from my mother. However, I will end with a very interesting excerpt from the book.
"It's amazing how gullible perople are. But you have to remember what a huge comfort the religion is. It provides all the answers. It makes life simple....
And that's a real big part of what holds this religion together: it's not having to make those critical decisions that many of us have to make, and be responsible for your decisions....
If you want to know the truth, I think people with the religion...are probably the happier, on the whole, than people on the outside. But somet things in life are more importnat than being happy. Like being free to think for yourself."
2 comments:
you and i have VERY similar views on christianity! it's interesting that you are reading a book on mormans. are you LDS? i just got back in touch with a friend of mine from high school (through blogger/facebook/etc.) who is LDS. we had quite a few in my high school, but she's an avid blogger and lives in provo, so it seems ironic you mentioned it.
ANYWAY! i was raised united methodist, which is quite liberal for christianity. my mom is open about religion, but she doesn't ever GO to church. we sometimes went on easter and stuff, but very rarely. my father doesn't attend church and doesn't discuss his views at all. i have no idea why. when i was in high school i went to church with my boyfriend's at the time and got started in youth group and stuff, but sometimes i had a hard time believing some of the stuff everyone was saying.
my boyfriend was raised not going to church at all, but both sets of grandparents are devout quakers. after spending time with his grandparents and the rest of their family, i'm really taking a liking to quakerism. you might like it, it's definately worth looking into. very open and accepting which are my kind of people... :)
sorry for such a long comment.
:) i get bored at work, so i read lots of blogs. from people i know and some public blogs about green design, architecture and other nerdy things that i love!
so i definitely read your post, and i love it when they actually make me think, like yours did!
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